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How to Choose The Best Fear of Flying Treatment For You

If you’re looking for fear of flying treatment, it’s sensible to look at all the options available before you decide which treatment is right for you.

To make things a little easier, we can group the many treatment options into 4 different catagories:

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Fear of Flying Treatment Catagories

  • General Therapists
  • Therapy Modality Specialists
  • Phobia Treatment Specialists
  • Group Fear of Flying Courses.

1. A General Therapist treats all sorts of different conditions. Additionally, they also use an array of different types of therapy. Most counsellors fall into this category. For people wanting talking therapy, this is fine. But for a fear of flying most people probably need something a bit more specialised.

2. The Specialist By Therapy Type. This type of therapist treats many different conditions using a single therapeutic approach. For example. they may be a specialist in EMDR, or in hypnotherapy, or tapping, but they will apply that single approach to many different conditions, not just phobias.

So they may have a good understanding of the therapy in which they have chosen to specialise, but they have applied this to a wide range of conditions like depression, weightloss, drug adddiction, eating disorders. All this means and they will have less experience of working with phobias and they will have less experience of treating fear of flying. And as fear of flying is often accompanied with fear of heights and claustrophobia, they will have less experience with these conditions too.

3. The Phobia Treatment Specialist. A Specialist Phobia Therapist will apply many different types of therapy to the rather narrow field of Phobia Treatment.

Paul Mckenna Fear of Flying Treatment Testimonial

Here at the Phobiaman Clinic, this is the catagory we fall into. Furthermore, we have found there are useful elements in all sorts of different therapy and treatment types, and if they work we see no reason why we shouldn’t use them.

Thus, we apply many different therapeutic techniques to the treatment of fear of flying. We use hypnotherapy for fear of flying, as well as NLP, Havening, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Timeframing Therapy. And as the UK’s leading clinic that specialises in phobia treatment we have more experience of treating fear of flying than anyone else in the UK.

Fear of Flying Treatment Courses

4. Lastly, we have group courses. And for fear of flying treatment there are many group courses available. Most of these are run by airlines, not therapists.

Airlines understand flying very well. However, they have a far lower understanding of the real nature of phobias than a phobia therapist does. They think that if they explain how the aircraft flies that people will stop being frightened. This approach is fine for people who are a little bit nervous, but it won’t work for someone who is panicking the night before the flight.

Luckily, we offer our own London fear of flying courses that are run by Therapists. All our Therapists have over 20 years of experience of working with people with fear of flying and turbulence. We can also help with fear of heights and claustrophobia – conditions that often come with a fear of flying.

Find Out More About Our Fear of Flying Hypnosis Treatments

If you would like to find out if our fear of flying treatment is going to be right for you, the first step is to call The PHOBIAMAN Clinic. One of our friendly therapists will be happy to answer any questions. Then you can decide if you feel we are right for you. We often have a waiting list of several weeks so please call as soon as you can so we can make sure we can get you treated in time.

Just call our team on 0207 193 5194 and we will answer your questions and explain what may be possible for you. If you are calling from outside the UK the international number is +44 207 193 5194.

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Why You Need a Phobia Specialist

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HERE AT THE PHOBIAMAN CLINIC, we understand what it’s like to have a phobia. This is because we are the only London-based clinic that genuinely specialises in treating phobias. And if you have a phobia, doesn’t it make sense to be treated by a phobia specialist?

Think about it: If you had a problem that needed medical attention, you would probably go first to your General Practitioner – your local doctor, that is.

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If it’s something simple, your GP may be able to prescribe the solution. But you wouldn’t necessarily expect your doctor to be able to treat your problem if it needed specialist treatment. You would expect them to refer you to a specialist.

Most therapists are generalists. A quick click around their websites will reveal treatments they offer for all sorts of other issues besides phobias. They try to be ‘all things to all men’.

What Makes a Phobia Specialist Different from Other Therapists?

At the PHOBIAMAN Clinic we don’t think this approach works so well. We can’t see the benefit of going for phobia treatment with someone who isn’t a phobia specialist. If you see a general therapist they might have just treated two people for weightloss, someone to stop smoking and someone else for depression.

It seems obvious to us that by specialising, a clinic will gain more experience in that particular field and therefore be better at it. You have to realise that not all phobias work in the same way, and a specialist is therefore more likely to have experience of treating a phobia that is similar to yours.

Someone who spends 100% of their time treating phobias is going to have a better understanding of phobic disorder, and  be more experienced than someone who only spends 15% on phobias and the rest on weightloss or smoking clients.

How to Check if a Therapist Specialises in Treating Phobias?

So how can you tell if a clinic or therapist genuinely specialises in phobias? The answer is on their websites. Dig around and find the section detailing issues treated or treatments offered.

If they offer treatments for other issues such as stopping smoking or weight loss or coaching or anything else, then they are not a phobia specialist And if they do not specialise in phobia treatment they are less likely to have the experience necessary to treat the more severe and deep-rooted phobias.

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Is Phobia Treatment for Me?

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HERE AT THE PHOBIAMAN CLINIC, we realise that phobia treatment is not for everyone.

And with 6 million people with phobias in the UK alone, we’re quite glad about that. As the UK’s biggest specialist network of phobia therapists, even we wouldn’t be able to keep up with the demand.

Lots of people live their lives quite happily with a phobia without ever getting phobia treatment. But if your phobia is stopping you from doing something you would like to do, or if you believe that your life would be better without it, then you should probably consider getting phobia treatment.

We built this website because we think that if you are considering phobia treatment it’s important to understand the different options available.

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We also think that everyone would enjoy their lives more without fear, and with less fear the world would be a nicer place.

Idealistic? Maybe. However, having helped over 14 000 people* we also realise that if you have a phobia there is almost nothing that can make such a positive difference in your life as losing the fear.

So we care passionately about helping everyone with a phobia who visits this site in every way we can. After all, we have 8000 reasons to believe that almost anyone can have a fear-free life if they want one.*

Overcoming Fear is Now a lot Easier… With The Right Phobia Treatment

Recovering from a phobia is now a lot easier than most people believe.* And your recovery will probably make a huge difference to the people around you, as well as in your own life.

We have found that people usually seek treatment for phobias for one of two reasons. The first reason is the fear is getting worse. And the second and more common reason is something’s coming up that means they can no longer avoid the thing they fear.

Maybe they’re in line for a promotion into a job that will involve flying or speaking to groups. Maybe their new job is on the 17th floor and they’ll have to take the lift. Maybe they want to visit friends and loved ones, or attend a wedding overseas. Maybe they’ve been asked to be the Best Man and they’ll have to make a speech.

For most people these events are wonderful news – they are things that bring joy and excitement to life; they are moments to celebrate and memories to be proud of. But to a person with a phobia of anything even remotely connected with them, they are the stuff of nightmares.

Life sometimes throws things like this at you with little or no warning, and we believe that life sometimes does this for a reason. And when it does we are here to help.

In fact, we have over 20 years experience of helping people easily overcome all kinds of phobias – from the more common ones like fear of flying, fear of heights, fear of public speaking and spiders to the more unusual like telephones, balloons and buttons.*

Obviously, we can’t say what may be possible for you before we know more about your circumstances. But we can say our programme has proved itself time and time again, regardless of how long a phobia has been there, because it has been developed from the best psychological techniques combined with decades of experience*.

It’s designed to treat phobias thoroughly and without the need to face the fear as part of the treatment. Patients find that as well as tackling the deepest root-causes of their fear, the programme also teaches them new behaviours to keep them safe without them having to feel frightened*.

With locations in Harley Street and Marylebone, London, the clinics are easy to find wherever you are coming from. And if you’d rather not come to London there is a nationwide network of PHOBIAMAN therapists, who have all been personally selected for their outstanding results with phobia treatment.

To speak with one of us about treatment options for your phobia, please call us on 0207 193 5194. If you are calling from outside the UK the international number is +44 207 193 5194.

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Private Consultations and Appointments at Harley Street’s Leading Phobia Hypnotherapy Clinic

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Here at The Phobiaman Clinic, we believe that surroundings play a vital role in a patient’s treatment and subsequent recovery. And we are not alone.

The world’s best doctors, therapists, physicians and other medical practitioners have all chosen to use Harley Street for Private Practice for almost 2 centuries. Harley Street has been offering appointments for private consultations for over 170 years.

Testimonial from paul mckenna private practice consultation appointment with the phobiaman clinicThe area is the oldest and most prestigious, dedicated private healthcare district in the world. It was featured recently in a 3-part BBC television series called Inside Harley Street, and it was the setting for the 2010 film, The King’s Speech.

The film tells the true story of how speech therapist, Lionel Logue, who practised in Harley Street, successfully treated His Majesty, King George VI for a speech impediment.

Logue’s methods –  considered unconventional at the time, and even scoffed at by many of his peers – were remarkably effective. In fact, they were so effective, The King was delivering flawless speeches within just 7 months.

The King’s patronage, and subsequent life‑long friendship with Logue, further established the reputation of the area, and since then Royals from all over the world have entrusted their health and wellbeing to Harley Street’s experts.

Private Appointments at The Phobiaman Clinic

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The Phobiaman Clinic is located on Harley Street, and the building has a lift as well as stairs.

We are just 2 minutes walk from Oxford Circus underground station and a short taxi ride from many mainline rail stations.

London Paddington (home of the Heathrow Express rail terminus), Victoria (Gatwick Express), Marylebone, Euston, Kings Cross, and St Pancras International are all just a short taxi ride. There is also underground car parking in Cavendish Square.

As well as Harley Street, there is a second Phobiaman clinic just around the corner in Crawford Street. When Harley Street is fully booked, treatment places are often available in our Crawford Street clinic.

Our Crawford Street Clinic benefits from being within walking distance of Baker Street, Marylebone and Edgeware Road underground stations and London Paddington and Marylebone Mainline Rail Stations.

The Crawford Street Phobiaman Clinic is just inside the Congestion Charge Zone, so visitors can park outside the zone and easily walk to the clinic if they so wish.

Private Consultations in Harley Street

CAVENDISH SQUAREThere is something special about coming to Harley Street for treatment. Maybe it’s the centuries of healing excellence that have taken place here. Or perhaps it’s just knowing you are getting the best possible treatment available today. Maybe it’s both.

Whatever it is, it’s an experience that few people get to enjoy and we always recommend patients come to our Harley Street Clinic for treatment, wherever possible. But we understand that this isn’t always easy, and luckily we have some of the best therapists in the UK in our national network.

Please call our friendly team on 0207 193 5194 to find out how to book a private appointment for you.

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Phobic Disorder– An Introduction

Phobic disorder is the name used by the medical and psychiatric professions to highlight the difference between ordinary fear vs phobia symptoms. Your fear must be unreasonable and irrational to be diagnosed as a phobic disorder. It is the most common of all the anxiety disorders, manifesting itself as an out of proportion, conditioned response of persistent fear. It nearly always results in avoidance behaviour.

Whilst this kind of fear disorder is different to panic disorder, people with phobias can also experience panic attacks. Panic attacks and panic symptoms are common with fear of heights phobias, and any phobias involving a fear of being trapped or enclosed, like claustrophobia or agoraphobia. The severity of these physical reactions can impair judgement in extreme cases, leading to an increased risk of harm particularly in the case of heights.

Phobic disorders are classified as either general or specific. The general disorders are agoraphobia and social phobias (also known as social anxiety disorder). All the others are classified as specific phobias, and are triggered by one particular feared stimulus. In these cases the fear has been associated with one specific object or situation. Common types of specific phobias include fear of elevators, heights, flying, speaking and injections. They are often related to animals too, most commonly snakes, spiders and dogs. Specific phobias are the most common, and are sometimes called simple phobias.

I don’t like the word “disorder” because it helps perpetuate the old the mental health system view of phobias as a dysfunction. The sooner we can move on from these stigmas surrounding fears and phobias the better. It implies that something is broken, when in fact in this case it isn’t. A quick look at how the brain works will help explain what I mean, and…

…The Difference Between Fear And Phobias

Whenever you experience something happening in your world, it isn’t the actual event that you experience. What you experience is a ‘representation’ that your brain creates. This representation is based on the information coming in through your senses. In order to create this representation your brain takes all the available information and runs it through three different types of process.

The processes your brain uses are generalisation, deletion and distortion. Your brain then creates the representation that you do experience, as a sequence of steps, presenting the information in a way you can make sense of it. In fact, this is how you make sense of anything. Here are some examples you’re probably familiar with.

  • Generalisation – You can only recognise a chair you’ve never seen before, as a chair, because your brain has “generalised” that something with 4 legs or a base, a horizontal surface at a certain height, and a vertical surface behind it is a chair.
  • Deletion – You can hear your name being mentioned even if their are hundreds of conversations going on around you, by your brain “deleting” the information contained in all that other “noise”.
  • Distortion – You make a piece of music meaningful and significant by “distorting” it from a series of sounds and connecting them together into a seamless stream of melodic beauty, combined with feelings and images.

Your brain doesn’t always know the best way to use these processes to form a representation when it first encounters something. It forms the best representation it can and then relies on making further modifications by testing it against your experience in the real world.

If it’s working for you, it leaves it alone. But if it notices that some of the generalisations aren’t actually all the same, or that it’s deleting some things that are important, or it’s distorting something in a way that’s not useful, it makes an adjustment.

With more experiences your brain learns more ways to generalise, delete and distort, and the representations become more and more useful. The more ways your brain has to use these processes the more flexibility it has, and the richer your experience of life. In order to do this it has to be able to test the representation in real situations.

Normally this isn’t a problem. But when the representation contains an excessive element of fear, your brain won’t take the risk of getting the experience you need from the real world to change these processes. As far as your brain is concerned there is no difference between a fear and a phobia. It cannot tell the difference between an irrational fear and a fear of something that really is dangerous. Fear is fear and it doesn’t like gambling with your life to find out whether it’s real or not. This is how anxiety disorders and phobias are formed and maintained.

But if something happens by chance that does allow you to test the representation, and your brain realises that the thing you are frightened of isn’t actually dangerous, it stops the fear. This is what makes the “Face The Fear” exposure therapy treatments like cognitive behaviour therapy work. The trouble is the nature of these methods means the majority of people with phobias don’t want to use them.

Hopefully, you’re starting to understand how natural this all is. It’s a fundamental neurological process, with a structure that your brain is deliberately using; and it’s working perfectly. You can see why we have a problem with the word “disorder” being used to describe phobias. It carries the implication that something is broken and there’s nothing broken at all.

But let’s take a closer look at the word “disorder”. Taken literally, it implies that something is simply happening in the wrong order; and this is far closer to the truth than the people who gave it the name probably intended.

Here’s what I mean. Psychoanalysis and counselling therapies focus on the “root cause”, and trying to change the 3 processes directly. But your brain doesn’t like them being messed with directly, and it keeps them unconscious for a reason. That’s why these treatments have such low success rates when it comes to phobias.

However, these processes are just one side of the equation. The other side is the sequence of steps that your brain outputs to make up the representation you do experience. And like any equation, when you change one side, the other side has to change too.

So if you change, or “re-order”, this sequence of steps, the processes of generalisation, deletion and distortion will also change. And this is the key to collapsing fear without any of the trauma or stress.*

And here’s the best part: It’s how your brain is designed to work.

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Causes of Phobias

What are the causes of phobias? It’s a good question, and when something’s not working as it should be, it’s natural to ask what the circumstances were that led to this development.

Phobias are no different. In fact, the more of an impact something has on your life the more urgent the need seems to be to find out information about it.

This is perfectly understandable as the physical symptoms of phobias are extreme by definition. The anxious feelings and panic attacks triggered by the specific feared stimulus can eventually become unbearable. They can begin to affect the general mood and even the mental health of the phobia sufferer. This can lead to depression or obsessive compulsive disorder in some cases, requiring professional medical or psychiatric help.

When it comes to treatment of phobias, there isn’t a great deal of choice in the NHS, so people sometimes seek medications from their doctor to help alleviate the symptoms. Others turn to alcohol or recreational drugs in an attempt to self medicate against the intense physical reactions.

As the unrelenting fear starts to eat it’s way into your life the first question most phobia sufferers ask is,

“Where do phobias come from?”

When researching the origin of phobias, the fist thing you’ll discover is they usually develop between early childhood and adolescence. Examples of phobias that children can be prone to include: Nyctophobia (fear of the dark), Teratophobia (fear of monsters), Arachnophobia (fear of spiders), Ophidiophobia (fear of snakes), Dentophobia (fear of dentists) and Aichmophobia (fear of needles).

In fact, most young children go through phases of being afraid of these things, but they usually grow out of it.  They can also develop fears like Koumpounophobia  (fear of buttons), but this is rarer.

Phobias can develop later, but after the age of 40 it’s rare.

Fear of heights and the complex phobias like agoraphobia, social phobia and emetophobia, (fear of sick and vomit), are unusual in young children – although not unheard of – because their formation is typically more gradual.

Phobias are defined as an unrelenting, irrational fear response triggered by exposure to a feared object or situation. The different kinds of phobias all have similar signs and symptoms involving an intense state of anxiety leading to the sufferer avoiding the feared situations.

A quick flick around the internet will demonstrate the understandable obsession with finding out what causes phobias (or any distressing mental disorder for that matter).

So what causes phobias?

The cause of phobias is usually attributed to some external learning experience outside of the control of the phobia sufferer. The logic is easy to understand and goes something like this.

Before “X” Happened I Was Fine…

After “X” Happened I Had A Phobia…

Therefore “X” Must Have Caused The Phobia.

The Traumatic Event – The favourite of psychology and psychotherapy professionals everywhere: A close shave on the motorway leading to a fear of driving; being bitten leading to a fear of dogs; a bumpy flight with turbulence and suddenly flying isn’t as fun anymore; an embarrassing 5 minutes in front of the class at school and the thought of public speaking leaves you shaking.

In fact, all the common wisdom tells us any traumatic experience can lead to a phobia. This forms the basis of all the classical conditioning theories. However, our brains are a bit more complex than this. Very few of the phobics I’ve worked with actually got their phobia in this way.

Witnessing Traumatic events. This is where someone observes someone else experiencing a traumatic event, and learns to be frightened from this “witness” position. It doesn’t even have to be real. The number of people seeking treatment for fear of water more than doubled after the release of the film Jaws.

But real events also lead to phobias. It is estimated that the national fear of flying that led to the reduction in air travel and tourism after the terrible events of 9/11 reduced the output of the US economy by 0.75%. 0.75% might not sound like much but it’s the difference between a recovery and a recession.

Cultural Causes (learning from others) – A few years ago there was a lot of debate about phobias being genetic. But it was all founded on the discovery that phobias are more common in women than men and was blown out of all proportion.

The reason that phobias crop up more in some families is because the individuals within that family have learnt to be frightened from other members. Observing the emotional reactions of others is strong evidence of a threat as far as your brain is concerned.

All these experiences may well have been the cause of the fear or anxiety you experienced at the time but, contrary to psychoanalytic theory, they are not the real cause of your phobia developing. After all, not everyone develops a phobia as a result of these experiences. .

If we’re going to find  find the real cause we need to take a look at how your brain works.

Why do people have phobias?

What you experience as reality, isn’t actually reality at all. It’s a representation of reality that your brain has created. Whenever you encounter anything, your brain decides what’s important about it and how it relates to you and everything else in our environment. It then creates the representation that you do experience.

When you experience something for the first time your brain does it’s best to form the most accurate and useful representation it can with it’s limited experience of whatever it is. With further experiences, your brain refines this representation to make it more accurate and more useful.

But if your brain doesn’t get any further experiences it can’t change this initial representation. This is what really causes phobias. If your brain thinks something is dangerous it won’t let you get the further experiences you need. As far as you brain is concerned it wants to keep you out of harm’s way.

This is how you get stuck with the original fear representation – your phobia. And by focusing on the cause of your phobia all you do is keep reinforcing this original representation.

This is why some people grow out of their childhood fears whilst other people seem to carry them with them all their lives. The people who grow out of them have taken their focus off the cause of phobias, and at some point allowed themselves to get other experiences.

Here’s what I mean: If you suddenly find yourself in a river, the reason you are in there is not just that you fell in. The reason you’re in there is also because you haven’t managed to find a way out yet. Focusing on what caused you to fall in will not help you find a way to get out.

The skills and knowledge that will allow you to get out have absolutely nothing to do with whatever lack of skills or knowledge caused you to fall in there in the first place. Finding the a way to get out is obviously far more useful than finding the reason why you fell in.

In much the same way, the external phobia causes listed above will not help you with overcoming the fear. The causes of and the effective treatment of phobias are completely different things.

This principle of getting additional experiences is what allows the “Face Your Fear” phobia treatments to work. Cognitive behavioural therapy (cbt), systematic desensitization, and all the exposure methods, rely on this approach. But it isn’t always effective. The trouble is most phobia sufferers are reluctant to use them for obvious reasons.

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